Four Funerals and a Wedding

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People often assume that, as a celebrant, I spend all my time surrounded by flowers, confetti, and love stories — and most of the time, that’s true! I adore helping couples celebrate one of the happiest days of their lives. But recently, something a little unexpected happened in that I was asked to facilitate four funerals in a row, before heading straight into my next wedding.

It was quite a shift — from grief to joy, from reflection to celebration — and it reminded me why I love this work so deeply. Every ceremony, whether it’s a farewell or a beginning, is about honouring life. The tone may change, but the heart of it is the same: helping people find meaning in the moment, words that feel true, and a ceremony that feels right.

Those four funerals reminded me that every goodbye deserves the same care and authenticity as a wedding day. Each person had a story to tell, and it was a privilege to help their families tell it. I learned about lives well-lived, love shared, quirks and humour, and the small, beautiful details that make someone unforgettable.

My next clients were a couple getting ready to say “I do” — and it struck me again how closely love and loss sit together. Both bring people together, both ask us to pause and reflect, both are moments of transformation.

So while most people know me for weddings, I also offer funeral and memorial ceremonies — crafted with the same warmth, care, and personal touch.

If you’re looking for someone to help tell a life story — with honesty, understanding and respect, I’d be honoured to help.